November 11, 2011

about relationship

this is just a super short post, about relationship.


i think, you dont actually need labels in relationships. what you need is consistency. you just need to know theyre not going to wake up in the morning and feel differently.

thats all that matters.

the question is not what if there is something better out there.
the question is whether what you have is enough for you.

just be yourself.
because those who matter dont mind, and those who mind dont matter.

accept him/her for they are. you want to be accepted as just what you are, dont you?

you may not be her/his first, her/his last, or her/his only. she/he loved before she/he may love again. but if she/he loves you now, what else matters?
she/he is not perfect - you arent either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she/he can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her/him and give her/him the most you can.
she/he may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she/he will give you a part of her/him that she/he knows you can break : her/his heart.
so dont hurt her/him, dont change her/him, dont analyze and dont expect more than she/he can give. smile when she/he makes you happy, let her/him know when she/he makes you mad, and miss her/him when she/he is not there.

and if you love someone, tell him/her. forget about the rules or the fear of looking ridiculous. what is truly ridiculous is passing up on an opportunity to tell someone that your heart is invested in him/her.


........wait. im sorry, it turns out to be one long post eh?

this is the last one, and since im a girl, am gonna write this or warn this to the guys out there :
dont get mad when a girl cares too much. worry when she starts not to care at all.

bonne nuit!

1 comment:

  1. Cool!! but there was 1 thing i lil bit disagree..

    girls cares too much, and boys already made a decission.

    for example,
    G:"Use my umbrella, you bring your laptop"
    B:"Its okay, it wont be wet at all"
    G:"Hey, it will be broken!"
    B:"No, trust me"

    she beggin, until the boy get mad..

    try to appreciate or respect what the boy already choose or made decission even when you care too much or you have well-intentioned